No behavior arises randomly so if the underlying processes in place that determine this aren’t understood, one will blindly live their life as if they were a puppet on a string.
Understanding the processes that are in place is what allows one to understand what’s truly going on in their life. It’s very difficult to decipher what is real and what isn’t, but it’s not all that difficult to understand the underlying processes that make you view life as you do. Mostly we are led around blindly without understanding why and this is the reason most never break free from their Conditioned Mind; as the same energy patterns remain in place. If something has you in its grip, if you don’t understand the process in place that causes this, you will not have the tools or awareness to break free from it. It will mostly fluctuate throughout your life. This unawareness of what’s truly going on makes one pursue things that are not truly beneficial to one’s own well being, and as stated before this is strictly because the process in place isn’t allowing it.
None of our behavior is random, it manifest in the way that it does because it’s what’s in place, you can’t get oranges from an apple tree. Certain Universal Laws are in affect throughout one’s life and regardless if the behavior associated with them is wanted or not, it will arise depending on the underlying process that’s in control. If the process in place makes one see things from any place other than love, this will cause problems. This is exactly why the world is as it is, it’s because the processes in place make people act as they do. Until the processes change that make it this way, one will continue to get apples from the apple tree even though oranges may be better suited.