Since every rose has a thorn, if life isn’t accepted thorns and all, the beauty of what it has to offer will be missed because the thorns will be the energy of one’s focus.
No one escapes life pain free, whether emotional or physical. We all have a so called thorn in our side, but it doesn’t have to keep one from experiencing life to the fullest. If this thorn becomes one’s daily focus, it will be an obstacle that blocks the ability to see the beauty that life has to offer. Just as every rose has a thorn, every life has some level of pain, but just as a thorn is a part of a rose and pain is a part of life, it doesn’t have to control you. You may say how can that be with all the tragic events that occur, but when you awaken to see nothing is truly permanent or personal in life, it makes it a lot easier not to attach to the thorns, and without attachment the thorns will still be there, but they will hardly be noticed; this is because the beauty of life will be where one’s focus is.
Although for much of my life the thorns were the focus which didn’t allow the beauty of the roses to be seen, it’s not this way today. The thorns are still there per se, it’s just that there today there’s an awareness of them, this allows for a choice which I didn’t always have, to attach to them or not. I’ve learned life itself is neither easy nor hard, thorns are just a part of it as it is with a rose, but my energy doesn’t have to focus on the thorns by wishing or praying they weren’t there. Although I may not embrace the thorns, I don’t ignore them, I just accept them for what they are and I don’t allow them to block out the beauty of what life has to offer, thorns and all.