What one values is emanated to others, be it of self or of love is what determines what that will be. To have values that are based in love is to ensure what is given to others is beneficial.
When there’s a clear view of what one values in life, it will be seen if what’s valued is truly beneficial not only to you, but also to others. If one’s values are based strictly for self serving purposes, this will be the cause of all the so called issues in one’s life. What’s valued directs the course of one’s behavior and one can only behave in ways that are aligned with what’s valued. If the values are self serving than being aligned with a self serving directions will be the way of the behavior. It has to be this way, but if love is what’s valued in one’s life they will behave in ways that are aligned with love.
A person can only be what they are, it’s not possible to be anything else. You can never be what you aren’t and it’s our values that make this occur. So it’s important to have a clear view of our values so we can see if they are aligned with Universal Love. It will be at that point when existence can be maximized to benefit ourselves, others and the entire Universe, but if this isn’t clearly seen, this won’t be clearly known and we will behave in ways that aren’t clearly understood. So what’s valued is how a person will behave and to know that your values are based in love will ensure your existence is a benefit to all beings, it has to be this way.