Behavior is more conditioned than it is evil. Because this isn’t understood, actions done are justified and do seem down right evil, but it’s only because of a lack of love that makes this so.
People, as am I, are conditioned to behave in the ways that they do. Our behavior is not something that just happens. Depending on the minds base is what determines one’s behavior. If one’s conditioning isn’t to love how can their behavior emanate love? Most people just think of themselves and form a belief system that’s used to suit their needs. They are conditioned to make up a self serving world to justify self serving actions. When a person truly loves there isn’t any justification or judgment. So people who judge do so strictly because there is a lack of love in their life so love isn’t allowed to be emitted to others. What Jesus said as he was dying on the cross “Forgive them for they know not what they do” was the ultimate example of how to love. If this example is followed and all we do is love, our world would be much different, but unfortunately this is not the case. Jesus didn’t say forgive the evil one’s, he said forgive them that know not what they do.
In any situation of my life what a person does or thinks of me is not of my concern. I will not try and change someone else’s conditioning because for the most part it is futile. If someone chooses not to love and they want to let someone go, allow it and move on. A friend to me is someone who loves me as I am, not as they think I should be. For me love has no judgment. Love and judgment can’t co exist. Most people aren’t conditioned to love so they judge, but I can’t judge them for it or I am just as unaware of my conditioning as they are.
Understand your own Conditioned Mind and you will understand the world. When this occurs judging ceases and things are allowed to be as they are, not as one thinks they should be. But if this isn’t understood, self serving actions will be uncontrolled because one’s conditioning will remain in place. It’s only through ignorance that we’re conditioned, but through becoming more aware of this ignorance and being mindful of our conditioning, we can be set free. And what we are set free of is our conditioning that blocks our ability to love. So when one love’s there’s a true understanding that if someone does something that isn’t loving, it’s allowed because they truly know not what they do.