If one understood their own mind it would be seen how the mind that creates suffering is also the one that has the ability to create peace. And the craziness of the conditioned mind is it creates I that makes an unconscious decision to suffer.
Suffering is crazy because it’s not known it’s a choice. This choice remains unknown until the day that it’s not. But until this awakening occurs it is one that isn’t understood by many people because of the unawareness of knowing ones own mind. If one’s mind was understood it would be seen how the mind that creates peace is the same mind that creates suffering. And peace could be the default setting of ones mind all the time, if it wasn’t for the crazy conditioning that causes one to create their own suffering. When the craziness of ones own conditioned mind is understood it is then that one will have the ability to make a conscious choice not to suffer.
Though one’s suffering isn’t a conscious decision, it is still one that is made through the ignorance of not knowing that one is conditioned. And regardless of how one is conditioned means little because all conditioning makes one create a world controlled by I. One’s conditioning creates one’s story and this story is what gives life to one’s I. This is what makes one’s world what it is. If one creates story after story about their life, than one can only look to I for the way life is. I likes to blame others, but others don’t create your stories, only I does. So because one is unconscious of their conditioning, life becomes one’s I based world which creates one’s own suffering. But without the conditioning one would be of the world and not in it because there would be a conscious decision not to create the craziness of one’s own I conditioned suffering.