Any life that is stable is one that has a base of love. This doesn’t mean life will always be in the way that its wanted, but the more one loves, the less I there is to go through emotional pain.
Its so easy to feel connected to life when things are going the way that they’re wanted, but how connected does one feel when things aren’t going in this way. One’s connection to life should never be different regardless of what is occurring, but because of the Conditioned Mind, the tendency is to think life is better when its going our way. One’s trust in the Universe shouldn’t be contingent on life’s circumstances because this will make life an emotional roller coaster. To be controlled by the circumstances of life is to controlled by our egoic conditioning as if we were puppets on a string. Its only this way because its what we ourselves unconsciously have in place. If we were conditioned differently our reactions to life circumstances would be different, maybe not better, but definitely different.
Our key to breaking the hold of this is to identify if our reactions are based in love. If they are, it is one’s obligation to preserve them, so we can be a benefit to others. But if they aren’t it is up to each of us to change them, but hey will not change just because they’re noticed. Many people know their actions aren’t much benefit to anyone except themselves, yet they still act as so. Why do you think this is? It has to do with what is at the core of one’s being. If love isn’t at life’s core one will be hard pressed to be of love. There is much responsibility with this because it is love that changes the world. And if one is aware of this there is an obligation to cultivate love so it is at the core of life. When this is done one can be a difference in a world that so desperately needs it.