You can live from your head, but you can only love from your heart. You don’t love in the past or future, you love in the present because the energy of the heart is from what is happening now.
If you sit around waiting for the other shoe to drop it will happen because by expecting it you are giving it the energy it needs to occur. Your projections eventually become your reality. Our projections always come from our head, never from our heart. When we love it is of our heart and that’s the energy we will emit, not the energy of waiting for the other shoe to drop. But that doesn’t mean everyone will love us back, although everyone’s heart is of love the Conditioned Mind blocks this from being known. It is known in the head, but to truly emit love’s energy to others it has to be from the heart. Going from the head to the heart is a difficult twelve inch transition and it is the road less travelled. When the idea of love gets stuck in the head there’s to much thinking involved and it becomes something other than love. I’m not sure what it is, but I know when I love it comes from my heart.
Since our projections always come from our head this creates problems because the mind needs something to do if its not trained to be still. The mind that solves problems is the same mind that creates them. If you make it a problem that the other shoe will drop, when it happens (in your head only), its your own mind that says “see I told you so.” But who is it telling that to, itself. You are not separate from your mind, but sometimes it seems that way. When you do something and say “why did I do that” the mind that told you to do it is now the same mind that is making you question yourself. It is your own mind that makes this happen.
Nothing makes you do anything, but your own mind. You don’t think negative thoughts without your permission. You don’t wait for the other shoe to drop without your permission. Your own mind tells you this is what’s going to happen because as the saying goes “if it wasn’t for bad luck I would have no luck at all.” The other shoe will only drop when it is projected to drop, it never has to drop, but that’s up to the reconditioning of your Conditioned Mind.
Nothing ever happens in your mind without your permission. So when it is learned to live life from the heart, the head will no longer be in control, projecting and waiting for the other shoe to drop. It won’t happen so you will then be free to live your life as intended; from the love that is in your heart instead of the mind made non sense of what goes on between your ears.